The things that I love
most about roller derby are the fierce competition, excellent
community, and the incredible friendships, which is why I absolutely
love tournaments. To me, tournaments are the place where each of the
aforementioned derby elements come together in perfect harmony.
Tournaments are a special place located right between your sweetest
dreams, worst nightmares, highest aspirations, most embarrassing
memories, with everything else in between. They are the epicenter of
everything that is awesome about derby; that's right, everything. So
today, in honor of our recent tournament adventures, I am going to
attempt to explain what makes them sooo LEGEN...wait for it...DARY!!!
First of all, a little
backstory. Last year, FoCo's very own travel team, the Microbruisers,
were invited to participate in a tournament called The Wild West
Showdown in Bremerton, WA. At that time, I had just made the
travel team and I was just a wee little Skatey with big dreams, big
fears, and whole lot to learn. I was doing my best to make the active
roster, and I was sweating the competition, hard. All fears and
aspirations aside, the atmosphere was incredible. Hundreds of derby
girls were everywhere you looked. Derby celebs were mingling in the
crowds alongside the merely mortal skaters (like myself) and bouts
were running continuously from early in the morning until late at
night. For the first time in my life, I travelled to another state
for the sole purpose of competing in a sport. I had no
presentation to give, no exams to take, no questions to answer, but I
had to compete in an entirely new way and I was ready to give it a
shot. I went up against extremely daunting teams: Slaughter
County Roller Vixens, Sin City Roller Girls, Emerald City Roller
Girls, and Dockyard Derby Dames, and played at a level I never knew
that I could. I gave it my all and ended up doing pretty well, but
that was only part of the story. The other part of the story
happened behind the scenes and opened my eyes to all of the wonderful
things that come along with tournament play.
At this tournament,
everyone was living and breathing derby, but amongst all of the booty
shorts, sweat, makeup, and gear stench, little, magical things
happened. Through these experiences, I realized how important it is
to practice good sportswomanship, to listen to and thank the refs and
NSO’s, and to keep a cool head on the bench. I determined that
success in derby is not only about having the skills and drive to
perform, but also about never underestimating your opponent or
yourself. Most importantly though, I found that travelling with
your team enables you to develop friendships in a way that is almost
impossible to do under regular circumstances. I am a nerd and I can
be pretty socially awkward, so even though I had been skating with
these ladies at least two nights a week for the previous year and a
half, I often felt like an observer rather than a participant. But
all of us were there in this pacific northwestern derby paradise, and
we all had to pull together to think and act like a team. We roomed
together, ate together, talked together, won together and lost
together. It was incredible. You're personally challenged on so many
levels, and you're surrounded by a bunch of strong, amazing,
inspirational women who are sweating their own set of challenges.
But these women are there, ready to support you in a heartbeat
(and/or set you straight, if needed). When emotions ran hot, and
chaos was everywhere, everyone seemed to ban together, and incredible
friendships were born.
When we decided to go to
Wild West again this year, I was ecstatic but a little hesitant. In
the derby world, a year can bring about a lot of change, and this
year was no different. For starters, our team is completely different
than last year, and several of our skaters had only been skating with
us for a couple of months. Also, I am now the captain, which brings
about a whole array of new responsibilities, concerns, fears, and
goals. Again, I found myself excited, scared, and on the brink of a
whole new type of learning experience. Along with all of those
thoughts and feelings though, I was just so excited. I could feel a
great energy from the new team, and although our preparation time was
shorter than I had hoped, I was really encouraged by the team "vibe."
Sure enough, once we arrived, the tournament magic happened again.
Despite some pretty serious issues with our travel situation (I
will never patronize a certain rental car company ever again!!! They
know who they are...) everyone pulled together, put on their big girl
booty shorts and by our first bout we had become a seething, furious,
derby monster ready to devour all skaters in our path! We skated,
laughed, cried, ate, and drank together. Although we arrived as a
bunch of skaters; some vets of the league, some brand new, all of us
unsure of how this would play out, we left as a team. A team that
performed well against formidable rivals and thanked the officials.
A team that increased our rankings by eleven spots and held down the
dance floor alongside Quadzilla. A team of women that I am proud to
skate with and am happy to know better through this tournament
experience. A team that I can’t wait to skate with again at the
Mayday Mayhem tournament in a couple of months.
So for all of you readers
out there here’s the take-home message: Tournaments are a test that
tell you what your team is made of, and the results are in- our team
is 100% AWESOME.
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